Jordan Blake is my pen name and the voice I created to tell the truth without holding back. I use it to protect something I spent most of my life without—privacy, boundaries, and a sense of safety.

I’m not here for attention or fame. I’m here because I’ve reached a point in my healing where I finally feel strong enough to help other people do the same.

It took me years that I’ll never get back to find the clarity and strength to face myself honestly. I lived through the damage of insecurity and self-abandonment, the kind of pain that doesn’t always show on the outside but eats away at everything that matters. I carried anger I couldn’t explain, lost people I cared about, and spent far too long pretending I was fine while quietly falling apart.

I don’t want anyone else to lose as much time as I did.

This work came out of the decision to stop running, to stop blaming, and to stop waiting for someone else to fix what only I could heal. Choosing to accept my full self with honesty, compassion, and accountability changed everything.

Jordan Blake is the identity through which I feel safe enough to share my story and what I’ve learned. It’s how I offer what I never had: a place to feel seen, understood, and supported while doing the hard, messy work of becoming a better human.

This is my way of paying it forward. A quiet thank-you to the Universe for giving me the clarity to start and the resilience to keep going.

If something I write helps someone find themselves a little faster, or suffer a little less, it’s worth it. We don’t need more perfection. We need more honesty. More kindness. More people willing to own their shit and do better.

That’s the mission: Transforming assholes into good people, one human at a time. So maybe, just maybe, we’ll all treat each other better.