Jordan blake
Author of
Own your sh!t
An unapologetically honest guide to personal growth through emotional intelligence and self-respect.
“When you take ownership of your emotions, you stop reacting out of fear and start responding from wisdom.”
join me on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment
Self-discovery is about getting honest with who you are. Own Your Shit is a raw, compassionate guide to personal growth, accountability, and emotional intelligence.
Real transformation can’t be achieved through quick fixes or superficial inspiration. It comes from doing the deeper work of learning self-awareness, building self-respect, and consistently showing up with integrity, even when it’s uncomfortable.
I’m Jordan Blake — writer, communicator, and the voice behind Own Your Shit. My work centers on helping people grow through honesty and self-awareness so they can build natural confidence.
We all carry pain, but not everyone knows what to do with it. Own Your Shit is about recognizing when fear or insecurity starts running the show, and learning how to respond differently. The goal is to grow into someone who leads with awareness, confidence, and integrity.
quiet updates from the middle of the work
from my desk
It feels like the quality of our communication is slipping because reactions are replacing responses.
When emotions run the conversation, clarity usually gets lost (and so does connection).
When we speak from emotion without pausing, we often say things we don’t mean, or avoid saying what matters.
I explored this in a recent essay about learning to respond with intention instead of reflex.
Check it out here.
Are you ready to Own Your Shit?
This is an invitation to face your truth with radical honesty. Start your own reflection journey with the 30-day journal inspired by the book.